In this age of technology and distractions, our attention is almost always divided among a plethora of notifications battling for our time. Why do you have some of your best ideas, thoughts, reminders in the shower? Because you’re not reaching for your phone the second it dings (or hopefully not).
Read moreVirtual Reality: From engines of empathy to bias eradicators
From smoke signals to snail mail to electronic messaging in all its various short-forms, communication has evolved to be lightning fast and as easy as opening the mouth and pressing a button. But what happens when words get sent as quickly as neurons fire? It once took months, miles, and great hardship for communication to be transmitted. How pensively one must have thought about a message before letting it loose into the world.
Read more5 things you should know when starting therapy
As a therapist, I'd like to remove as many obstacles to coming to therapy as possible. There are things that people don't usually think about until they're in the room. If you're anything like me, you have no idea what to expect with therapy, so I hope to bring light to some of these things, in an effort to bring more comfort and empowerment to the experience. Remember, the therapist is the guide, but you are the one in control!
Read moreHow I avoid burnout
My father's from Mexico and is mostly indigenous. As a child, he instilled in me a deep spirituality and a sense of karmic justice: that there's a reason things happen -- not that everything that happens is good, but that it’s an essential part of one’s life path and is something that will ultimately make us grow as human beings, as spiritual beings. When something happens that makes me feel out of control, what restores my sense of control is knowing that there's a larger picture at play. It makes me feel like I don't have to be personally in control of everything because there is something larger that I believe in.
Read more7 things to consider when choosing a therapist
When deciding to begin therapy, I always recommend that people "therapist shop" -- have an introductory session or at least a phone call with several therapists before deciding which one they want to try long-term.
Many therapists offer free consultations, and even if not, you can always ask at least a few questions over the phone before scheduling the first session. It's hard enough to make the courageous choice to see a therapist, and even harder to find one you like. To help with the process, here are 7 things to keep in mind when "shopping."
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